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Brothel Manager Shares The Careless Mistakes That Give Men Away

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After years in the business, a brothel manager has pointed out the careless and sometimes downright foolish mistakes that lead men to get caught by their partners after visiting the adult venue.

For the past nine years, Catherine DeNoire has been in charge of one of the largest brothels in Europe. Over time, she’s witnessed plenty of dramatic moments — including tense showdowns between husbands and wives when the secret gets out that someone’s been making visits they shouldn’t.While speaking with news.com.au, she explained that the “most stupid” way many men end up being exposed is by leaving location tracking on their phones or pulling out noticeable amounts of cash from shared bank accounts using the ATM at the brothel.

Ms DeNoire also pointed out that men sometimes dig themselves in deeper. One of the most obvious slip-ups? Transferring money directly from a joint account to a sex worker’s personal account — and yes, she says there are “bonus points” for that kind of move.

“It sounds like a no-brainer, but lots of men stop thinking clearly once they enter a brothel. Common sense just disappears,” she added, emphasizing how quickly good judgment seems to disappear for some clients once they enter the venue.“But to be fair, I always say that there are also clients who are extremely good at covering their tracks. They’ll come during their lunch break from work, leave their phone at the office just in case — especially if they have shared location on or tracking history on, which would look suspicious if he would suddenly turned it off — and then just say they had an important client meeting.”

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“They always bring cash, never withdraw money nearby, keep no receipts or entry tickets and they take a shower after the session so there’s no scent or trace.”According to Ms DeNoire, some confrontations don’t just happen at home — they’ve gone down right inside the brothel. In many cases, the situation unfolds with the wife or girlfriend walking in, convinced her partner is there. She’ll demand to see him, and if he’s found, the two usually step outside to argue in private.

However, one particular case stood out. A woman had found a brothel ticket tucked away in her fiancé’s pocket. Instead of confronting him immediately, she came straight to the venue and insisted on seeing the CCTV footage for proof.

“Their wedding was just a week away, and she wanted to know if he had really been here. She asked me to show her all the security footage from the day in question, to confirm whether he had visited or not,” Ms DeNoire recalled, describing how determined the woman was to confirm her suspicions before going ahead with the wedding.

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“That’s simply something I can’t do. I can’t just let random people into the office and show them our CCTV footage.”“I explained that to them, but the fiancee took it as me covering for him and she said there would be no wedding.”

“I tried to suggest that they talk it through, that maybe he really wasn’t here but it didn’t help. I don’t think the wedding ever happened.”

Ms DeNoire explained that when women find out their partner has visited the brothel — especially in a relationship where monogamy is expected — their reactions are usually filled with anger, sadness, and a strong sense of betrayal.“He’s shocked and immediately starts apologising, claiming he didn’t do anything, that his friends dragged him there, that he was just waiting at the bar, or that he only came for a drink and this was the only place still open,” she said, describing the range of excuses men offer once they’re caught.

“But once, I saw a guy pull a really bold move. His partner found out, waited for him to confront him, and when she did, he flipped the whole situation and got mad at her for stalking him and following him around like some jealous psycho. That was really something else.”

She explained that men come to brothels for many different reasons, even when they’re in relationships that seem happy and committed.“Some men are in happy marriages — they love their wives but the sex is gone. They don’t want to pressure their partner into doing something she doesn’t want to do, but they also don’t want to get involved in an affair as they see that as something more emotionally risky than visiting a professional,” she said, offering insight into how some men justify their decisions.

She added that some clients are looking to explore fantasies they don’t feel safe bringing up at home. For example, things like BDSM might feel too uncomfortable or even shameful to mention to a partner. Others treat the visit like a form of emotional release — a place to talk, be heard, and escape their stress for a little while.

“And then there are men for whom this is simply part of their lifestyle. Even if everything is ‘okay’ at home, they still want to feel like champions — like they’re wanted and desired,” she continued, explaining how some men are drawn to the sense of validation they get from the experience.“So the question of whether it’s cheating, I always answer: I don’t know. I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors in their relationship, what kind of boundaries or agreements they have.”

“I don’t want to automatically assume that every man with a wedding ring is cheating and a jerk because some couples do have open relationships and are perfectly happy that way.”t5

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