I, Ana , am 25 years old and I married Carlos right after graduating from university. We met at university; our love was pure and simple. Carlos is kind and hardworking, but his mother, DoNa Teresa , is famous in the neighborhood for being strict and cruel.
The same day she took me to meet her, she uttered a phrase:
– A girl from a poor village, will she be able to support this family?
I tried to smile, thinking that if I was obedient and hardworking, one day she would accept me. But I was wrong. From the first day as her daughter-in-law, she criticized everything I did and never praised me.
The reason DoNa Teresa did not accept me was simple: she had planned for Carlos to marry a rich girl from the region, and I had ruined her “plans”.
When there were guests, he used to say between the lines:
– Nowadays, when you get married, you have to choose someone with money; what can you do with someone who has nothing?
Carlos listened, but he rarely dared to defend me; he would just remain silent or change the subject. I swallowed my tears and told myself that I had to endure everything for him.
One day, Carlos had to go on a business trip for a week. I stayed home looking after the family shop and doing housework. That day, I accidentally dropped a bottle of oil, and it spilled all over the floor. When DoNa Teresa saw it, she flew into a rage and yelled at me, calling me clumsy and saying I’d ruined everything.
But he didn’t stop there. Suddenly, he took me to a room, closed the door, and with a pair of scissors, cut off all my long hair that I had grown since I was a child.
I was in shock, struggling:
– Mom! Please, no… my hair…
She gritted her teeth:
“What’s the point of so much hair? To attract other men? I’ll cut it all off so you know what humiliation is!”
The sound of scissors cutting hair echoed throughout the house. Tears choked me, but she didn’t stop.
After cutting me off, she forced me to take a small bag with my belongings:
“From now on, you’re going to a convent. I don’t want a shameless woman in my house!”
I fell to my knees pleading:
– Mom, please… I didn’t do anything wrong…
But she turned around and left, leaving me trembling in the yard. I grabbed my bag and walked out the door of Carlos’s house, while the neighbors murmured and stared at me.
It began to rain lightly, and the cold seeped into my bones. I didn’t know where to go; I only remembered what she had said: “to the convent.” So I walked to a small convent at the edge of town.
The nun in charge looked at me with compassion and allowed me to stay in the kitchen. With my hair disheveled and my eyes swollen from crying, I became the talk of the town.
During my time at the convent, I helped the nun clean, cook, and grow vegetables. No one scolded or criticized me; only the sound of the bell and the scent of incense comforted me.
The nun advised me:
“Don’t hold grudges. Resentment will only make you suffer more. Live well, and time will provide answers for everyone.”
I listened and began to calm down. I enrolled in a sewing course in the city; I studied in the mornings and worked at the convent in the afternoons.
Three months later, I was already making beautiful clothes, which I sold to tourists visiting the convent. Little by little, I opened a small shop at the entrance to the convent and earned a steady income.
Carlos still came to see me secretly sometimes. He cried and begged me to come home, but I just shook my head:
“I won’t come back until your mother understands.”
He lowered his head, powerless.
One rainy afternoon, DoNa Teresa appeared in front of the convent entrance. She was thinner, and her hair was grayer. When she saw me, she knelt down, tears in her eyes:
“Ana… forgive me… I was wrong…”
I remained silent. She recounted that after I left, Carlos moved to an apartment and refused to speak to her. The store was empty, and only then did she understand the value of the days when I had taken care of everything.
– Go back home… I promise I will never treat you like that again.
I was silent for a long moment, then calmly replied,
“Mom, I’m not angry anymore. But I have my own life here now. If I go back, everything will be the same as before.”
She cried and held my hands tightly:
– If you forgive me, I already feel relieved…
I nodded slightly. I forgive, but I’m not coming back. I chose to stay at the convent, continue sewing, and open vocational classes for the village’s young people.
My story surprised many. From being a humiliated daughter-in-law thrown out of her home, I managed to get back on my feet and build a new life.
I learned that sometimes, leaving is the most profound lesson for those who have hurt us. And forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting, but letting go and finding peace in your heart.