AITA For Not Being A Chatty Cathy With My Hospital Roommate?

From Redditor u/Latter_Plant_9364

I (30F) had surgery earlier today.

I gave birth to a baby six months ago. There was a [complication] which could not have been able to be operated on at the time.

So I was the first surgery for the day (the nurses kept mentioning it), after recovering I was brought to my observation ward.

About an hour or so later I had a roommate (40ish F) joined. I had been watching tv shows on my iPad with the volume on loud. As soon as she arrived, I put my airpods in as a curtesy to her.

Later in the afternoon my husband brought our baby to come and see me. As soon as they left, roommate started up a conversation. I was polite and entertained the conversation for about 30 mins. I apologized to cut the conversation short but I was going to have a nap, well she got all huffy and rude staying I was selfish.

When I woke up from the nap, roommate was no longer there. I called for pain meds and the nurse said I must have really said something to her, as while I was asleep, she demanded to be moved to a different room, and that I should be kinder with my words.

I feel that I’m not the a**hole for wanting to sleep to recover, it could be the meds I’m on but I feel horrible.

Well I have a small update;

I am in a private hospital, for my admission I did request a private room but it is not always guaranteed. Yesterday and today were the last days for “elective” surgery.

To my surprise an old classmate works in the recovery ward and didn’t want to freak me out yesterday by visiting. She texted me saying she saw my name and then me in the ward yesterday, this morning she came by before she started her shift. We had a lovely conversation and she got to meet my little one as my in laws came by to visit as they are baby sitting for him. It was a wonderful silver lining as I hadn’t seen my classmate for about 6 years.

Turns out the former roommate was never [meant] to be put in a room with me as there is a lot of empty rooms, my new morning nurse said that the former roommate was still complaining about me and whole lot more. She was doing laps up and down the ward, and made a comments to my mother in law about how rude I am as they were leaving. Mother in law told her to shut up and focus on her own recovery instead of worrying about other people.

I get discharged tomorrow morning, so I am trying to rest up before I am back with my little family.

AITA For Coming To The Hospital To See My Ex After Her Son Called Me?

From Redditor u/PopPuzzleheaded7846

7 years ago I started dating a woman, let’s call her Maya. She has a son, Mark. He was 4 when I started dating Maya. Mark’s father, Maya’s husband, unfortunately passed away when he was still a baby so he has no memory of him.

Me and Maya got along quite well and our relationship proceeded steadily and without too many problems. In time, I built a good relationship with Mark too and by the time he was 7, we were a good trio. Unfortunately my relationship with Maya ended 2 years ago. It was nobody’s fault. There was no cheating or abuse involved. We simply had some problems and we came to the conclusion it was better to break up.

Last week I got a call in the middle of the night: it was Mark calling. When I was still dating Maya, I had given him my phone number and told him to call if he was ever in trouble and needed help. He had never called since me and Maya broke up but that night he was panicking; he called and he told me that he and Maya had a car accident. He was ok but Maya was injured and they had been taken to the hospital. I pondered on what to do but decided to go to the hospital. Maya has no living relatives and Mark told me he was alone so I went there mostly to take care of Mark.

When I arrived, Maya was still unconscious so I stayed with Mark for several hours, until she regained consciousness. When she saw me, she asked why I was there and I told her about Mark calling me.

She said I should not have come and forced me to leave. At the time, I apologized and left because I thought I had overstepped her boundaries but now, thinking back, I don’t think I did anything wrong. Mark was panicking and he called the person he wanted by his side in that moment. Was it wrong for me to come? AITA?

AITA For Calling My Girlfriend Selfish For Being Mad I Wasn’t There For The Birth Of Our Kid?

From Redditor u/Broccoliheart20

My girlfriend and I (both 26f) have a son who is just over a year old. And there was some major ‘drama’ during the birth.

For some context, I have chronic heart problems and have been struggling with it since birth. I had a surgery when I was an infant, another at 7 and another at 15. I haven’t needed one since and have been doing well all around. When my girlfriend was 6 months pregnant, I got really, really ill and it took a massive toll on my lungs and heart. I pulled through but spent about a month in the hospital. I felt so awful that I couldn’t be with my girlfriend (Jane) but she was super great with it.

Then, 2 days before the due date, I was rushed into the hospital due to a build-up of fluid around my heart. I had to get the fluid removed asap. When the fluid was all out, my BIL came to visit me and he told me Jane had given birth. I was both ecstatic and devastated.

I had to spend the night under supervision but as soon as I was allowed to leave, I went to the maternity wing to see my girlfriend and baby. At the time, all negative emotions were smothered by our bundle of joy but over the months, Jane has been showing more and more signs of resentment towards me.

It came to a head last night during our date night. I had the whole day planned; baby had gone to grandmas, her favourite take out, got all her favourite movies ready to play, spa evening planned, etc. But she wasn’t feeling any of it. I asked her what was wrong and she said she’s angry at me for missing the birth.

I’ll admit, I didn’t handle it as best as I wanted to, but we argued for a bit and I ended up calling her selfish for saying that. I asked her if she understood the severity of the situation and that I was very ill. She got up and said she wasn’t going to let me patronise her and that she’s never been disrespected like that before and that she’s going to bed.

AITA?

AITA For Not Paying My Nephew’s Hospital Bill?

From Redditor u/hospitalbillpost

I have 4 kids, Alexis (15), Lucas (12), Ronnie (11), and Allie (8). Alexis has a lot of health issues. We’ve been in and out of the hospital for months.

Something important to know is that Alexis has a picc line (big take home iv) and is getting blood thinner injections every day so we do have needles and vials around the house. She also occasionally gets pain meds through her picc line.

My sister has 2 kids, Andrew (12) and Alyssa (9). She brought them to the house to play with my kids not too long ago.

Alexis had a minor procedure a couple days before they came. I was showing my sister a video of Alexis at the house right after the procedure. She was still very high and it was hilarious (she’s fine with me showing family these videos). Andrew came into the kitchen, heard the video, and asked what it was. I said that I was just showing his mom a video of Alexis after she got some pain meds.

A few hours later the kids were grabbing a snack and Andrew took the container with needles and vials of the blood thinner out of the pantry. He asked what it is and I said it’s Alexis’s medicine.

My sister and I left to take our dogs for a walk and I wanted to get a snack out of the pantry when we came back. I noticed Alexis’s medicine box was moved so I looked at it and one of the blood thinner vials was a lot more empty than before and a needle/syringe was missing.

Sister and I interrogated all of the kids and we found out Andrew gave himself a high dose of the blood thinner because he thought it was her pain meds and he wanted to get high.

My sister rushed Andrew to the hospital and he stayed overnight. Now she’s sending me the hospital bill because I was the one that left the medicine where he could get it. I’m refusing to pay because if my 11 and 12 year old boys and 8 year old girl know not to touch other peoples medicines, her 12 year old should be able to see a vial and syringe and not drug himself.

She’s threatening to sue and I really don’t want to go the legal route with this. AITA for not paying the hospital bills?

AITA For Spending Time With A Random Kid In The Hospital?

From Redditor u/aitahospitalvisits

My daughter is in the hospital due to organ failure from an eating disorder. I am fortunate enough to be able to stay in the hospital with her.

There is a girl, Mila (15) in the room next to her with an intestinal disorder. She’s been here for about 3 weeks now. She always leaves her door open so she can talk to anyone hanging out by her room.

I decided to start talking to her because I’d never seen her with a visitor and she’s really a sweet kid. This is her 6th hospital stay since she got diagnosed around thanksgiving because her meds keep failing. The hospital is 2 hours away from her house and she’s one of 5 kids so her mom isn’t able to come more than once or twice a week and her dad hasn’t visited at all. Over the next few days she’d call me into her room when she’d see me waiting in the hall and I just started going to her room when I couldn’t be with my daughter. We talk, play cards/board games, and I run some small errands for her, like picking up her target order, washing her clothes, getting snacks, etc.

Yesterday I was playing cards with her when her mom showed up. Mila introduced me to her and her mom asked why I was in her kid’s room. I explained that my daughter is the room next door and whenever she needs some space, I spend time with Mila since she spends so much of her time alone.

Well, Mila’s mom was pi**ed with the nurses for letting some random woman in her kid’s room and with me for “criticizing her parenting” (all I said is that she spends a lot of time alone in her room). Apparently Mila is autistic and that meant she wasn’t capable of inviting me into her room (I had no clue she was autistic) and that me going in there makes me a predator.

I told my husband about this and he agrees that she’s overreacting but he thinks I shouldn’t be in a random kid’s room.

AITA For Filing A Complaint Against A Hospital Worker Who Kept Trying To Touch My Baby?

From Redditor u/PsychologicalHair519

Yesterday I had a doctors appointment that i had to bring my 7 month of son with. Appointment went fine, but afterwards i had to head downstairs to the lab to get some blood drawn.

While I’m waiting in line to check in, another woman walks up to me and starts asking about my son. “boy or girl?” “how old is he?”. Meanwhile he is in his stroller sleeping with a blanket over the whole front so its darker and gives off the chill, sleep vibes inside the stroller.

This woman proceeded to lift up the blanket to peek inside at my son. Immediately responded with (in a slightly annoyed tone) “he’s sleeping right now, he’s been having a rough time with naps during the day so he was very cranky earlier.” Which is mom code for “DONT WAKE UP MY BABY, DONT TOUCH MY BABY”

Right after i told this lady that he was sleeping, she looked up at me and said “oh okay okay” really fast in a hushed tone. THEN CONTINUED TO TRY TO STICK HER HAND FURTHER IN THE STROLLER UNDER THE BLANKET. Like she was just gonna be quiet now instead of taking the hint!

So at that point i was mad and snapped “don’t touch my baby i don’t know you and i already said he is sleeping.” She had the nerve to tell me it was okay because she worked there at the hospital. That just made me even more mad so i asked her “so then are you here to draw my blood too since you work here and you can do everything?”

She then said how rude that was and how she just wanted to congratulate me on my baby. She told me that it was a shame motherhood didn’t turn me into a sweet person who wanted to show off and brag about my baby like it does for everyone else.

As she walked away, the counter opened up for me to check in and I asked to file a complaint about her being so rude and trying to touch my baby. The woman at the counter said i could and would give me the info i needed for that, but then asked if i was sure i wanted to complain because “lots of people like touching babies here, usually the mom isn’t upset about it.”

I was literally flabbergasted that she would say that to me so i turned around and left the whole god damn hospital because i could feel a nuclear breakdown coming. I called the hospital later and explained what happened and that i needed to reschedule. The woman on the phone apologized on behalf of the hospital and said she would file the complaint for me.

Now that I’ve simmered down I do sort of feel a bit karen-ish because I’ve never filed a complaint about anyone before. But I’m still so mad about the way they talked to me at the clinic.

AITA For Refusing To Look After The Child Of A Parent Who May Need To Go Back To The Hospital?

From Redditor u/Chance_Meeting_7015

I have 2 daughters in their early teens. The older one is autistic. A couple of years ago my younger daughter had a sleepover with 6 or so friends for her birthday. A few days later we had a request from the father (Gary) of one of these girls (Elsie) for her to stay over because he had to work a night shift. My wife and I were surprised by this as we didn’t know him and we wouldn’t want our kids staying with someone we didn’t know. We said yes though and she stayed.

Elsie and Gary then signed up for a weekly class that both my kids do. Since Gary doesn’t drive I give them a lift every week. This is the only interaction I have with Gary, I’m not not close with him at all.

Despite this he asked on a few more occasions (maybe 3 or 4) for Elsie to stay at our house. My daughter has grown away from being friends with Elsie over the past year or two and my older autistic daughter doesn’t like the invasion of her space that having someone stay brings. It also complicates work from home as we need our office setup as an extra bedroom. Our kids normally cycle to school but Elsie doesn’t have a bike so I need to drive them which is an inconvenience to me. Even so, we always agreed to have her to help Gary out as he’s a single parent and she was in need.

Recently though he has become ill and been admitted to hospital. He asked for her to stay with us while he was in and we agreed as he’s a single father and we felt sorry for him. We ended up having her her for 5 days, but we weren’t sure how long it would be initially. Gary knew he would need to go back in to hospital at some point but made no arrangements for Elsie and assumed she could stay with us again. He ended up going back in earlier than expected and basically dumped her on us again. We felt we had no choice but to look after her.

Again we had no ideas how long this would be for. It was ten days this time and we were all beyond our comfort zone with the situation, but my autistic daughter was really struggling with having a guest in the house for that long. A few days after Gary got out of hospital he messaged us to say he might have to go in again and that she would like to stay with us again.

This is where I may be the ah, I shut this down quickly and said that there is no way she can stay again. I feel bad because he is a single parent and claims he has no one else to turn to, but I feel that he has had plenty of time to sort out other arrangements and that I need to put my own children first. Her mother is alive but not an option for reasons that I don’t know about.

So AITA for not helping out a sick father in need for the sixth/seventh time.

AITA For Refusing To Spend Christmas In The Hospital With My Daughter?

From Redditor u/Hospitalthrowaway532

My (39F) daughter (16F) has had a sensitive stomach ever since she was a kid. There are certain foods that will upset her stomach to the point where she’s unable to stop throwing up.

We’ve seen countless doctors, but so far nobody’s been able to give us a clear answer. The only advice we keep getting is to identify all trigger foods and cut them from her diet. We have a pretty good idea of what those foods are: soda and other carbonated drinks, chips, cheetos, and other similar processed snacks, anything oily or fried and most sweets. Unfortunately, this is exacty the kind of stuff my daughter loves to eat the most. And as horrible as she feels after she has them, she still refuses to cut them out of her diet, which in turn led to her spending a lot of time in the hospital during the past few years.

When she was little, it was easier to keep all these foods away from her because I simply wouldn’t buy them. But now that she’s older, I can’t always be there to check what she eats. She eats the greasy pizza at her school’s cafeteria, she trades her lunch with her classmates, she goes out with her friends and stops to eat at KFC and so on. And it always ends with her in the ER, crying and shaking because she can’t stop throwing up.

This was the case on this Christmas eve as well, when our whole family gathered at our place. And of course, among the many dishes at our Christmas table were some of her main trigger foods, like chips, soda, chocolate and sweets. Now mind you, these were far from the only foods available to her. We also had a variety of home-cooked, traditional dishes on the table, with ingredients that don’t upset her stomach, like vegetables, meat, dairy etc. All of them delicious and well-seasoned – my daughter herself says she really likes most of these dishes.

Despite this, my daughter chose to eat nothing but her trigger foods. I reminded her that they’d make her feel awful, but she said she didn’t care, because Christmas is only once a year and she just wants to live a little. Well, this ended with her violently throwing up in the ER a few hours later. She had to be hospitalized for a few days and only just got out of the hospital a few hours ago.

And unlike all the previous times when something like this happened, this time I chose to spend my Christmas relaxing at home with the rest of our family, and not in the hospital by my daughter’s side. I kept in touch with her through calls and texts, and told her that if she needed anything I’d ask a family member to bring it to her, but I made it clear that I would not be visiting her during her stay.

And well, my daughter didn’t take this too well. She cried every time we talked on the phone, begged me to come over, told me how horrible I was for ‘abandoning’ her there all alone and so on. Most of our family didn’t take my side in this either, and during the past few days I got called everything from ‘a little extreme’ to downright cruel and heartless. AITA, Reddit?

AITA For Accidentally Giving My Co-Worker An Allergic Attack And Getting Her Sent To The Hospital?

From Redditor u/kevinplas

So I (22M) and my co-worker Lukas (23M) decided to surprise our co-worker Lily (25F) for her first year anniversary. With permission from our boss we decided to fill up her entire office with balloons, normally we start working at 9AM but for this we came in 3 hours early at 6AM.

Together we spent around $50 worth of equipment to do this, we finished this within 2 hours and started waiting until Lily came to the office. After 45 minutes she arrived and she went up to her office, once she got to her office she opened the door and the entire room was filled with balloons. But since there were so many, a lot of them escaped the room and fell onto Lily.

She suddenly started screaming and backed off really quickly, we went out of hiding and surprised her. Then she said she was very allergic [to] latex, but I didn’t understand. She explained that balloons are made of Latex, and that I should’ve known that she was allergic [to] Latex.

After 30 minutes the allergic reaction became so severe that she had to be rushed to the hospital, I didn’t mean to do this since I thought balloons were made out of rubber. It’s been 2 days and she’s recovering at home since returning from the hospital today.

So Reddit, AITA?

AITA For Telling My Girlfriend I’m Not Taking Her To The Hospital Anytime She Feels Discomfort?

From Redditor u/Joelaken

I’ll try to remain as least biased as I can.

I (27M) and my girlfriend (21F) are expecting our first baby at the beginning of May. This pregnancy has been nothing short of chaotic. My girlfriend has never experienced pregnancy and she’s terrified to give birth, so any feeling of discomfort she freaks out. I understand that pregnancy is hard and scary, and my girlfriend doesn’t have her family around to help her, so she’s probably experiencing a lot of anxiety. I’m not trying to downplay that. I’m frustrated because I feel like she’s taking advantage of the fact that she can get me to do things for her just because she’s pregnant.

We got into a fight a few days ago. She insisted that she didn’t feel good, and she thought something was wrong with the baby. She wanted to go to the hospital to make sure everything was okay.

We’ve been to the hospital for this kind of “emergency” almost four times since the beginning of her pregnancy. I had to go to work because we are severely understaffed, so I told her that if she still didn’t feel good tonight we could go make sure everything was okay. She got upset with me, and she told me that I never take her pain serious. I told her that I can’t drop everything any time she feels any discomfort. Pregnancy is uncomfortable. We argued some more then I left for work.

When I got home I asked if she was feeling better, but she wouldn’t tell me. She has stopped talking to me about her pregnancy now, and I feel like she is being manipulative. She’s withholding information about my child because I didn’t drop everything to take her to the hospital, again. I tried explaining to her my side of things and I apologized, but she’s still mad at me.

My girlfriend is treating me like I’m the a**hole, but I feel like she isn’t seeing how frustrated and tired I am from dropping everything for her. AITA?

AITA For Refusing To Allow The Hospital To Discharge My Wife To Me?

From Redditor u/throwawayctas

My wife now has stage 4 colon cancer. For the past year and a half, I have had to work and then come home and do the majority of the household chores and I was also treated as the nurse. We have two sons (18M, 16M) and a daughter (15F) that help out, but it became expected of me to be their go to parent on everything.

A year ago, my wife pretty much stopped being able to do anything for herself. She’s exceptionally rude to me, and pretty much screams and cries hysterically all the time and sometimes mutters on about people who haven’t been in our lives for some time. She also blames me for not being ” kind” to her when I am putting my entire life on hold when I’m at home and I felt like I didn’t even have an identity anymore.

Over the summer I have talked to doctors and they told me there was a lot of red tape regarding getting my wife into a nursing home. I talked with my dad (74M) and he told me that from his understanding hospitals if you didn’t pick up a patient after discharge three days later the hospital social worker would have to place them into a specialized nursing facility.

Last week, my wife had to be rushed to the emergency room. For the week I didn’t have to be her nurse, I realized how much of a strain taking care of a barely lucid, and angry when she was lucid woman had become to me. I realized that I was basically being mom and dad around the house and I was so tired of doing this every single day and then waking up at 6 to go to work.

When I found out my wife was set to be discharged, I ended up making up my mind. When the hospital called to say that they were going to discharge my wife and I needed to be there to receive her, I told them that I did not want to take care of her anymore.

The hospital continuously called me back and the person on the other line would beseech me to bring my wife home. However, I stood my ground and said that my wife needed to go to a professional nursing facility and said that the hospital’s social workers needed to figure that out.

AITA for finally realizing I had reached my limits? My daughter in particular is very upset that her mom is not coming home. My sons screamed at me that they would take care of their mother 24/7 if they had to. However, I knew that the hospital social worker would do his/ her job competently and help my wife into a facility.

AITA For Not Watching My Kids So Their Father Could Be With His Wife In The Hospital?

From Redditor u/throwaway827262627

Me and my ex husband divorced 4 years ago, we have two daughters together.

My ex husband remarried 1 year ago, and I knew that he and his wife were excepting because my daughters told me that they would get a sibling. Now this Friday it was his week with the girls, he called me and asked if I could please take them earlier. When I asked him why, he told me that he needed to be with his wife at the hospital. I said no, that is not a reason to disobey the court order and that he either could stay with the girls, leave the girls with a babysitter or take them with him to the hospital. I hung up before he could continue.

He texted me about two hours after telling me that I was extremely sick in the head and that for once, he was in a situation where he needed my help and I refused. His best friend who was a mutual friend of ours until the divorce also texted me and said that he hoped I was happy with myself.

I don’t get how I could be an a**hole but it obviously seems like he and his best friend has come to that conclusion, if I am the a**hole yes I will apologize, but firstly I need to know.

AITA For Leaving The Hospital After My Husband Called For His Mom Instead Of Me?

From Redditor u/throwaway5tkl5466

My husband (31) was in the hospital for a surgery that involved anesthesia. His mom came to wait with me there but didn’t speak to me because we have been having some minor disagreements. She offered me coffee but I declined politely.

Hours after the surgery, we were told only one person goes into the room for the day since he was still under anesthesia. From what I understand he woke up calling for his mom, the nurse asked for his mom to go in and she did.

I was irritated and felt like all this waiting and stressing out got ignored. The nurse told me that he was still not fully awake and was repeatedly calling for his mom spontaneously, she was basically hinting that I shouldn’t get worked up over a natural reaction from my husband but I couldn’t help feel irked.

I wanted to go home so I left 10 minutes later. His mom called saying she got out the room after I left so I could get time with him but instead I couldn’t wait and went home. She said this was not okay and I flew off the handle for no reason, I said that her son acted like I wasn’t there but she said that he can not be blamed for something he can’t control and I’m just being unfair to him and putting blame on him because of a disagreement between her and I. I cut the conversation short after I sensed that she somehow blamed me for being unacknowledged and ignored.

Her husband texted later saying I’m being hostile over nothing and that I should focus on my husband’s health instead of acting petty but I don’t think I did anything that qualifies as petty.

AITA For Walking Out Of The Hospital After Hearing My Wife’s Diagnosis?

From Redditor u/fassaaai

I (33) get a call from the ER on Friday saying that my wife (32) drove herself there because of searing pelvic pain.

I’m on a business trip until Saturday but I drive back in time to be there Saturday morning before she woke up.

A while after she wakes up, the doctor comes in. My wife says to stay with her so I say ok. He takes a deep breath and said that from the transvaginal ultrasound and CT scan results, she has ovarian cancer.

My wife starts sobbing but at first I stay still because I don’t even know what to make of it.

My wife asks what that means for her and he says that she’ll likely at least need a full hysterectomy, and they’d have to remove the Fallopian tubes as well as the ovaries.

That news jolted me from my chair. Because the doctor was effectively telling me that she wouldn’t be able to have kids after this, and after years of work, I thought we’d finally have a family.

I’m overwhelmed with emotions of anger, not just anger at the disease, but pent up anger form the fact that I had begged her to have kids since we were 26, but she refused for her career.

And now instead of becoming a real family, I didn’t even know if she would remain the woman I married, whether the last picture of us together would be last time I’d remember her looking beautiful, young, and carefree. Because the wife I as in front of me was already a different person.

My wife started to grab my hand and say ” We’ll fight this and we’ll adopt.”

But I shook my head and turned to walk out the door. I still had my suitcase in the car so I drove to a hotel because I didn’t know if my wife was going to end up being discharged or what.

At the hotel I was at least able to get out of reactive mode, but I was still so disappointed that our dream of a family was over.

I finally was able to get a grasp on all my emotions and feel more like my normal self in that I knew exactly what I felt about every aspect and how I would react to it from here on out.

I get a call from my MIL saying that if I was at a hotel or ” wherever else” I should just stay there.

AITA for walking out? I admit it was done on impulse, but this diagnosis just sliced my life and my wife’s life wide open.

I wasn’t going to expel the cancer if I stayed that night, but I did at least make myself aware of my situation. And I feel I have a right to be angry that my hope of biological kids, the only kind I ever wanted, is rapidly fading away.

AITA For Being Mad That My Wife Didn’t Stay In The Hospital With Me?

From Redditor u/Injuredandalone

So I (35M) was in a motorcycle accident earlier this week. My wife (35F) has 3 kids from a previous marriage (17F, 10M, 5M) and we have a 1 year old together. I had a collapsed lung and had a chest tube put in, a broken leg and arm and torn ligaments in my knee. I’ve been in the hospital since Monday.

She came out the day of my accident and stayed until about 4 am. Was back that same morning but has gone home each night. Yesterday she only stayed until about 1 pm to prepare the house for the hurricane and didn’t come at all today because the weather wasn’t great and she said she didn’t want to leave the kids.

I told her I was upset that I basically went through everything alone. That I would’ve done anything to be with her. She told me she’s been there as much as possible and it’s not fair to dump all the kids on her daughter especially since I’ll need a lot of help when I get home and her daughter will need to help with the kids when she works.

I told her marriage means through thick and thin and I feel abandoned. Now I’m getting one word answers from her.

AITA for feeling like an afterthought?