Healthy Woman Shared Why She Chose Euthanasia After The Death Of Her Son

Warning: This article includes discussion of suicide, which some readers may find upsetting.

A British woman who was physically healthy has died by euthanasia after years of grief following the death of her son. Wendy Duffy had spoken before her death about how deeply the loss had changed her life.

Duffy died on Friday, April 24, at a clinic in Basel, Switzerland, where assisted suicide is legal. She had traveled there after deciding that she no longer wanted to live following the death of her son four years earlier.

The 56-year-old, who was from the West Midlands, had her application accepted by Pegasos, an assisted-dying nonprofit organization based in Switzerland. The group provides assisted dying services for people who meet its requirements.

The former care worker paid Pegasos $13,500 to undergo euthanasia under its care. The procedure was carried out on Friday after her application and mental capacity had been assessed.

Ruedi Habegger, the founder of Pegasos, said: “I can confirm that Wendy Duffy, at her own request, was assisted to die on April 24 and that the procedure was completed without incident and in full compliance with her wishes.”

“I can also confirm that neither we nor any of the professional staff assessing her mental capacity had any doubt as to her intention, understanding and independence of both thought and action.”

“In historical terms at English law, hers was a case of ‘sane suicide’.”

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Duffy had attempted suicide nine months after her son died. Before traveling to Switzerland, she told the Daily Mail that she felt suicide was the only way her “spirit can be free.”

“My life, my choice,” she told the Mail. “I wish this was available in the UK, then I wouldn’t have to go to Switzerland at all.”

Duffy’s son, Marcus, died at the age of 23 after choking on half a cherry tomato that became stuck in his windpipe. His sudden death left her dealing with grief she said she could not move past.

“They think he must have fallen asleep when he still had food in his mouth,” she added to the Mail. “That’s the only comfort, that there was no struggle.”

Pegasos informed Duffy’s family about her plans before the procedure took place. Duffy, who had worked in care, said she planned to call them from Switzerland to say goodbye.

“It will be a hard call where I’ll say goodbye and thank them,” Duffy continued.

“But they will get it. They know. Honestly, 100 percent, they know that I’m not happy, that I don’t want to be here.”

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Duffy chose what she would wear on her deathbed, making those final details part of her own plan. It is believed that “Die With A Smile” by Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars was played in the background as she died.

The British woman had also given instructions to Pegasos about what should happen to her belongings after her death. She asked for them to be donated once the procedure had taken place.

If you or someone you know is struggling or in a mental health crisis, help is available through Mental Health America. Call or text 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org. You can also reach the Crisis Text Line by texting MHA to 741741.

If you or someone you know needs mental health support right now, call the National Suicide Prevention Helpline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). The Helpline is free, confidential, and available to everyone 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

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